Lose virginity?

'When did you lose your virginity?'

This question is always a secret for everyone, especially for girls, 'cause they feel ashamed of telling people around. Most of the guys are actually honest about this issue, they're different from girls, 'cause they think that it's not a big deal.
Virginity, love and dignity. Have you ever relate the three of them in your mind when you try to reveal yourself in front a man or woman?

People say: HEY, THIS IS 21ST CENTURY

21st century doesn't mean you can do anything simply because you want it.

Always think before you unbutton your shirts and jeans! You give in a relationship doesn't mean you have to give in all of yourself. When you're in love with someone, you're challenging yourself, challenging your desire, it's a hard deal for you and your partner.

Only give in yourself to someone when you really think that he or she'll stay with you for a lifetime. If you fall for 10 people, and you give in yourself to those 10 persons, you don't make yourself proud but dirtying yourself. You give up yourself to them. You lose your dignity. I personally don't look down on those who ever made it, people make mistakes, people lose controls.

I ever asked a friend: you need sex, for real? My friend answered: it's an essential for a relationship, it's normal, we both love each other, why not? After a period of time, they ended their sweet moments. Sex for love? If it was, why wouldn't it make both of you stay in the relationship? At the end, you only leave a dirty expression about yourself to other people, funny? This, you're making sex with just, somebody you know, not making love, 'cause love doesn't separate a couple simply with some stupid reasons.

Remember, give up yourself only when you know the person in front of you will give you a happiness that lasts forever, not money, not big houses or cars, but a human life.